Every morning, I make myself two hard boiled eggs. When I peel the shell, I see a thin membrane and if I catch that membrane the shell peels off easily. If I don't catch it, the egg winds up with gouges and they're in the white which I particularly like.
There are some people who seem to always catch the membrane. Their lives, at least from the outside, look smooth. They have success, money, a solid, long term relationship, children; they look like they've done everything right and been very lucky.
There are other people and I'm one of the one. Sometimes I catch the membrane and things go very right; sometimes I make a mess of things and things go very wrong. But, despite appearances, I don't think anyone gets out of this life without some gouges and bruises, without some suffering, loss and regrets. It's the way of the world, part of the human condition.
All I can do is be careful and pay attention. I can let the eggs cool enough for the membrane to contract. I can crack the shell at the bottom, where there's an air pocket, and with just enough force to avoid the shell itself digging into the eggs. Then I can take care when I begin peeling so that I don't use too much pressure. If I do all that, the shell comes off easily and I get to enjoy the egg.
Catching the membrane isn't rocket science. It just takes reminding myself to pay attention, focus and have patience.
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